The Virgo Man

Virgo Men tend to prefer logic over emotion. They tend to analyze situations around them. They're like computers that try to scan their surroundings for potential threats. 

Likewise, they tend to hide their emotions, but are in fact very emotionally perceptive and true to their friends. The minute they sense something goes wrong, they will be the first to ask the question, and they will analyze their friend’s problems for them.

However, this affinity for critical thinking can also be a downside. This is because they can be too critical of everything they do and overanalyze their own actions.

The element of the Virgo Man is Earth. Astrologically speaking, the Earth element represents complete tranquility and unshakable resolve. This is consistent with Virgo’s ironclad commitment to order and discipline.

This is further complemented by the quality of Virgo’s sign: mutable. Rather than being rigid, they allow themselves to move with the earth and the times. This makes them flexible thinkers, and this disposition suits their logical preferences well. 

This combination of Earthly adaptability rightly allows them to succeed at life by being cold and calculating. And they'll still have enough fluidity to change their minds as current needs demand.

The Virgo Man is best represented by their sign: the Maiden. Inviolate, tranquil and pure, the Maiden symbolizes clearness and spiritual peace. It also represents being completely able to hold one’s own against anything with independence and grace.

The Maiden may seem like a female sign, but this in fact shows in a lot of ways what makes the Virgo Man unique. For unlike the naked aggression of signs like Aries and Leo, what we have here is purity and logic, reason and order.

This in turn makes Virgo Man a highly reliable problem-solver and loyal friend to everyone else.

The dominant planet of the Virgo Man is the one named after the messenger god of the Ancient Romans, Mercury. As a planet, Mercury governs the ability to talk to other people, as well as any transactions you might have with them.

And with Virgo’s huge capacity for thinking in advance, this means that they often succeed at making contact with other people. Where some signs are impulsive, they in fact tread lightly.

Aside from this, the cherry on top is that they are also emotionally gifted. This means that they can sense one's emotions long before they are visible.

Don’t work yourself up

For a Virgo, nothing is more important than actually saving your intellectual strength for things that matter most. When you think about things calmly, it allows you to respond to any challenge more efficiently and without fail.

For this reason, you should never stress yourself over hypotheticals. If anything, you should instead work with any contingency that might happen. This is because you can’t fully prevent chaos in life to begin with.

As such, the wisest course of action is to work with what's available and plan in such a way that there are as little risk as humanly possible.

Allow yourself a moment’s rest

Virgo Men are known to overwork themselves habitually due to their problems with security. They can be so particular about something that they’ll spend days trying to perfect it until even their very bodies drop.

When this happens, it ultimately weakens the Virgo’s capacity for productivity, which can in turn hurt the quality of their work. As such, it should be an imperative on your part to make sure that you are able to relax.

Not everything is always going to end up perfect, so you should instead focus on higher priorities and actually allow your mind a healthy break.

Accept your imperfections

This will go against your very nature as a perfectionist, but this is also something that you have difficulty acknowledging. The reality is that no matter how much we try to make things perfect, there will always be a flaw in what we do.

And this is because we ourselves are flawed. No human being is perfect, and that’s perfectly okay because the measure of one’s greatness isn’t in their perfection, but their ability to simply work hard to be enough.

For this reason, you shouldn't allow your flaws to get the better of you. Embrace yourself-- flaws and all!

Avoid overanalyzing others

Virgo Men often feel inclined to criticize other people as a way of improving them. However, there are times where criticism of any kind isn’t warranted, such as when people are just genuinely looking for empathy.

In these situations, motives often do not matter; the act of criticism can be problematic. It might only force people to go in the opposite direction, instead of being willing to accept their mistakes.

Be sensitive to the situation and environment and don't be too liberal with your tendency to critique. If necessary, ask people first before you want to state your case-- they will surely listen.

Acknowledge your insecurities

Although not possessing the same arrogance as Leo, Virgos often have difficulty acknowledging their own inner flaws. This is because they often have to pit that against the ideal image of perfection they have for themselves.

This same contradiction essentially puts Virgo Men in a cruel spiral where they end up always having doubts about themselves. The problem with these doubts, however, is that they will always find a way to be acknowledged, at the expense of your own emotional health.

Thus, the biggest step you can take for yourself is to acknowledge all your flaws to start fixing the problem.

Moss Agate

The earthly hue of the Moss Agate crystal truly makes it a special one of the Virgo Man. Its primary effect is that it allows you to remain focused and clears your mind of any confusion or misunderstanding about your personal motives.

When you are able to purge these inner doubts within you, you are then able to truly amp up your productivity and make good use of your time. Rather than simply letting time pass by, you are making the most out of your life.

Thus, it is imperative that you utilize this crystal when you feel lost or unsure.

Celestite

The Celestite stone may look unevenly toned and spotty in places, but don’t let its confusing exterior deceive you. As a crystal, its ultimate purpose is to help facilitate meditation among people.

With Virgo Man’s supreme use of reason and intellect, the crystal will allow them to sort out their thoughts in predictable, logical order. In other words, it’s a crystal that ultimately helps to hone their mind to a fine edge.

Thus, this tool is best used to promote self-mastery. Be sure to use this in conjunction with prayers to the universe and internalize the strength the crystal emanates.

Unakite Jasper

Unakite Jasper has both positive and negative energy to it. In a positive way, it naturally serves to heighten Virgo’s already strong focus, making them capable of spotting mistakes or double-checking at a pace they wouldn’t otherwise be able to.

Aside from this, it's also capable of absorbing the negativity of your thoughts, expelling not only doubt, but even your simple misgivings about a decision. This generally results in you becoming more confident and forthcoming about your decisions, eliminating delays.

This crystal is best used when making decisions of any kind: its healing properties will help you think with clarity.

Virgo Men are well-regarded for their logical approach to life. More often than not, they are capable of saving not only themselves, but other people with them. 

Nevertheless, to truly realize their potential, you have to overcome your worries and anxieties, and embrace your imperfections.